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		<title>This Week in Books: HIGH RISK &#8211; Children Without A Conscience</title>
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Not long ago I wrote about the Attracting Power that we all share and how it literally summons the things and people into your life that you need to fulfill your purpose in life.  I mentioned a book that I located in the Psychology Section of the local public library titled: Prisoners Of Childhood [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Attracting Power 4.1</title>
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Every human being is like a magnet constantly attracting things and other beings into their lives.  The other day I stopped by the New Orleans Public Library in order to return a couple of books and check out some more.  As usual I started out in the Sci-Fi section.  I can’t seem [...]]]></description>
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		<title>This Week In Books: NEMESIS</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 23:30:40 +0000</pubDate>
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Well I just finished reading NEMESIS by one of the best in the game, Isaac Asimov.  You already know I have to keep giving props to Michael Arrington of TechCrunch fame for putting me back up on this Sci-Fi kick.  As a result of this eye opening experience I’ve had the great opportunity [...]]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 16:25:36 +0000</pubDate>
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JOB: A COMEDY OF JUSTICE
Thanks to Michael Arrington I&#8217;m a Robert Heinlein fan.  Michael introduced me to the classic Stranger in a Strange Land which iss a phenomenal story for the ages.
Job: A Comedy of Justice (Amazon Link)
In this one religion happens to be the main theme.  Faith is also a common theme [...]]]></description>
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